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With Gratitude

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I THINK this will be my last post for the year. MAYBE. Who knows, I may find myself between Christmas and New Years, kids tucked in with their new toys and hubby distracted by the really cool gift I’m hiding from him…. and have something to say.

But probably not.

So with that dear readers, thank you. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support, comments, private messages and emails. Thank you for READING, thank you for asking the hard questions, thank you for making me think. A handful of you were total assholes but that’s ok, I learned from you too.

I’m excited to take some much needed time off and spend time with loved ones. I’m grateful for new opportunities that await me in 2020 – keynoting Talent42, continuing to write and speak, an upcoming blog re-launch, and offering more 1:1 coaching sessions. I have some big plans brewing, and I’m excited to share the new Recruiting in Yoga Pants world with you soon.

Recruiters, thank you for all you do to connect people with opportunity. I know as well as anyone how thankless this job can be. You are so often the unsung heroes of talent acquisition, working tirelessly behind the scenes to make shit happen. I appreciate you.

Hiring Managers – (I know at least 3 of my HMs read this blog 😉 hi) THANK YOU for your partnership. THANK YOU for taking chances on people who may not look “exactly right” on paper. THANK YOU for explaining your super technical world to me. THANK YOU for being the best partners a recruiter could ask for. None of this is possible without you.

To my candidates past, present and future – I don’t even know where to start. Just… thanks for being you. For all the candidates I’ve been fortunate enough to place in new roles, THANK YOU for trusting me with something as MAJOR as a job change. Present candidates, be patient with me. You’re never far from my mind. Future candidates? I look forward to meeting you. 🙂

I have the best job in the world. Full stop. I don’t know many people who picked recruiting on purpose, so I’ll just say I’m glad this crazy industry found ME and has given me 20+ AMAZING years.

Here’s to the next 20.

What to Wear to an Interview

Image result for dress for the job you wantThere sure are a lot of experts out there telling us what we shouldn’t wear to interviews and/or the workplace. One author proposes a no bling rule (check out my response here). Someone else says no yoga pants (thanks for inspiring this blog!). And now we have NO ORANGE CLOTHING.

Yes, I understand that not all companies are the same. While I, in tech, can get away with pink hair and Star Wars t-shirts, I know that this would not fly in a bank in my Midwestern home town. I encourage you to employ some common sense and ask your recruiter / friends / colleagues who are in the know. Besides that, there is one simple rule that everyone – regardless of the position – should follow.

Wear what makes you feel great.

That’s it! That’s the rule. Here’s why. An interview is your one big chance at making an epic impression. You’ve probably already made a positive one – after all, they’re inviting you to meet a bunch of folks and are SERIOUSLY considering you for their open positions. That is a great sign! It means they like you enough to invest hours of employees’ time to get to know you better.

What they are probably NOT doing, is judging you over the color of your sweater.

Hey if orange is your color, ROCK IT. I would look like a washed out pumpkin, but you’ll pry my leopard print scarf out of my cold dead hands. There are certain outfits and accessories that just make me feel like I have my shit together. And when I feel like I have my shit together, I come across as WAY MORE CONFIDENT.

Who doesn’t want to wear confidence to an interview?

Here’s a fun fact about me. Red lipstick is my super power. I have no scientific proof to back this up. I cannot tell you that I’ve received amazing offers because I wore red lipstick. I can neither confirm nor deny that my most popular speaking engagements, webinars and trainings were the ones where I was rocking the red. I can tell you, without hesitation or reservation, that I feel better/smarter/more confident when I have my lippy war paint on.

It’s going to be too much for some people. A company, hiring manager, or recruiter who looks at this shameless selfie and says “oh no she’d NEVER fit HERE” – well, they’re right. And I wouldn’t want to.

I am SO fortunate to be at a place in my career (at least right now 😉 ) where I can carefully pick and choose who I want to work with and where. I know not everyone is this lucky. So recruiters, here’s some unsolicited advice for YOU.

Don’t allow your hiring partners to pull this shady stuff. Just don’t. If you’re unsure how to push back on bad feedback, call me. I’ll walk you through it and give you some ideas on how to re-center the discussion on what matters.

Candidates – send me your super power selfies! Show me what you’re rocking for those important interviews. I’ll draw a name at random and send you a little something to thank you for being a faithful reader and supporter of my little blog. You can always find me at amy@recruitinginyogapants.com, put “SUPER POWER SELFIE” in the subject line so I don’t miss it.

Now go conquer that interview!

How To Network With Recruiters On LinkedIn

On average, I receive anywhere from 10-50 LinkedIn connection requests a week. While many are just “want to connect” messages, a WHOLE LOT are asking for my help or advice on how to get a job with my company.

I can probably provide actual, specific value to approximately 3% of those people.

This post is for the rest of you.

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So you want to work for a company. Awesome! Totally makes sense to connect with recruiters, because we are after all the mythical gatekeepers to all the jobs. Networking with recruiters at your target companies is a GREAT idea – as long as you’re hitting up the right ones. I work exclusively with a very specific business group within a giant organization. I know a fair bit about how we hire hardware engineers, especially for my client team. The rest of the company, not so much.

1. FIND THE RIGHT RECRUITER
If the goal is to connect someone who can help you get hired, then you need to look for recruiters who actually hire whatever it is you do. Recruiters are generally pretty good at sprucing up their profiles and dropping the right keywords. I did a quick search for finance recruiters at my company and had several viable hits in the first page. The key here is finding recruiting contacts that are probably responsible for filling the roles you’re interested in.

2. BE SPECIFIC IN YOUR REQUESTS
I get a lot of “just want to connect” requests which is TOTALLY fine – I’m a fairly open networker, so odds are I’ll accept. Hopefully you find value in content I share or maybe it leads you to another connection that can help you get wherever you’re trying to go. If you’re looking for a specific “in” or have questions let us know! It feels really good to help – I love it when someone reports back that they got their dream job or made a great connection because of something I said or did. Also, if I work here, it’s because I WANT TO. So I want you to want to, too. But I NEED you to be really clear with what you need from me and how I can help. A lot of you might be reading this because frankly, it’s the best response I can give you.

3. THINK BEYOND RECRUITING
Yeah, I know, we’re the mythical gatekeepers holding all the keys to the kingdom and bestowing offers on those we deem worthy. Hah. Sure we are…. can you imagine? No, actually we are more like connectors and collaborators, trying to bring two people (or more) together for the purpose of one great hire. It’s hard, but very, VERY important work. I would never suggest going AROUND a recruiter, but maybe just maybe… there’s another way? Who better to ask about what it’s like to work as a Software Engineer for Really Cool Company than a fellow Software Engineer already doing it? Even better, what about the Software Engineering Manager you could maybe work for someday??

Here’s what I know for sure – hiring managers ultimately feel the MOST pain of an open role. I have anywhere from 15-25 roles I’m recruiting for any given day. My primary focus is talking to people who can do one of those jobs. Nearly as important is making connections / talking to people who are qualified / potentially interested in doing similar jobs in the future. A hiring manager for a specific role is feeling an immediate pain on their team. Many of them even go so far as to post “We’re Hiring” in their LinkedIn headline! Find managers at companies you want to work for referencing things you want to work on. Be clear in your intentions, and specific in your requests. Help us help you!

I do not know any recruiter who intentionally withholds information or refuses to respond to candidates just to be a jerk. I promise – if you ever feel “neglected” or think that a recruiter is treating you poorly by not replying, there’s probably more to the story! Finally, as much as I hate templates, here’s once you can use as a starting point for your next outreach. PLEASE modify to fit your personal style, voice, and how you communicate.

Hi (recruiter name),

I am a (job title) working with (company) and am interested in learning more about how (company) hires (titles). I have applied online to (position), and found your profile which said you hire (titles).

I’m not sure if my application has made it to your desk, but I wanted to express my interest directly. You can learn more about me here (linkedin profile, personal blog, link to resume, WHATEVER). If I am a fit for any (title) roles you’re working on, I’d be happy to set up a call to discuss further. You can reach me directly at (email) or (phone).

If I may be a better fit for another (role/team/recruiter), please feel free to forward this email to the appropriate contact – I’d really appreciate it!

Thank you,

(you)

Easy peasy! Now why does this work? A few things – you’ve giving me CLEAR info that I can work with – you’re a this, looking for a this, at my company. Cool. You recognize that I actually recruit for relevant roles, which is like 8 billion bonus points. You applied online (yay! especially for big companies – we really do fish in our own pond) and you’re giving me contact info in case I want to immediately jump on the phone before you change your mind. 😉 Finally, you’re giving me permission to share (sooo helpful – I’m way more inclined to forward to my friends when I know you’re ok w/ it) and also not applying a ton of pressure to respond. It’s an open ended “hey if we fit let’s chat” and not a forced “I REALLY WANT TO NETWORK WITH YOU AND ASK YOU TO SOLVE ALL MY CAREER PROBLEMS”.

So there you have it. A peek into the brain of an overworked, stressed, and ultimately really wants to be helpful recruiter. Try it and let me know how it goes! Send me your results to amy@recruitinginyogapants.com – I’m opening up 30 minute coaching sessions to the first 5 job seekers who give this a try and share their feedback. Please put in the subject line “NETWORKING WITH RECRUITERS RESULTS” so I don’t miss it.

Happy connecting!

Interview Prep Advice For Candidates Who Don’t Want It

I’ve been in the people business for 20 years. That’s a REALLY LONG TIME to do one thing. I’ve done it a lot of different places, but they all have something in common – interviews are hard.

I don’t care how long you’ve been working in your chosen profession. I don’t care what your degrees are in. I don’t care if you are the world’s foremost expert in basket weaving – someone, who has the authority to recommend you for a job, is coming to judge your basket.

Don’t you want to know what they’re hoping to see?

Candidates who dismiss interview preparation or recruiter advice from the start are doing themselves a tremendous disservice. Don’t believe me? Let’s meet Cliff (not his real name, but he looks like the guy from Cheers. Uncanny, actually – since he also KNOWS EVERYTHING).

Many moons ago I was a starving agency recruiter searching for a CFO for a solar start up. Our client specifically wanted someone from a utility background, and was willing to train up on the intricacies of solar AND start up world. The role was a tremendous opportunity for someone to come in to the C-suite with a fast track to CEO, as our client was a serial founder and wanted to turn over the reins to his new hire. After much searching, I found Cliff – his background had been primarily in public utilities in the right geographic area – he knew the players and was itching to get into something “new”. Win Win!

I talked to the client about Cliff’s background and concerns around not having previous start up experience, and the client explained why that didn’t matter. What he REALLY wanted to see was energy and confidence that the person could learn. As long as Cliff could deliver THAT, he was IN! His background could not have aligned any better.

I’m STOKED, and can’t wait to give Cliff the good news plus share some interview prep. We had some standard prep we sent everyone, but we also targeted certain things we learned / knew about the organizations we were retained with, to help our candidates put their best foot forward. I schedule the call with Cliff, letting him know what we were going to cover. When I called him, I barely get a sentence out when he says –

“No offense, Amy – but I’ve been interviewing since you were in diapers. I don’t need any help.”

Now my dumb ass, being a young recruiter kinda new to this exec search stuff, backed down. Big mistake. HUGE. I left Cliff to his own devices, where he promptly went into the interview and shit the bed. When debriefing with the client, he was sad. Cliff had a great background, exactly what he was looking for, but repeated several times “but I haven’t worked in solar/start up before”. Over. And over. Maybe it was nerves, maybe he thought the client didn’t already know that. What I know FOR SURE, was that I could have TOLD Cliff we’d talked about that, vetted it, and how to discuss (be confident in what you DO know and focus on how you’ll ramp up!). But unfortunately, Cliff already knew everything and cost me a massive fee.

Sigh. I had to call Cliff, and let him know. Guess what Cliff said. NO REALLY GUESS.

“Gee Amy, I wish you had told me that.”

YOU DON’T SAY!

Well Cliff, I tell you what. You’ve RUINED everyone else’s chances of escaping my prep calls! EVERYONE GETS A PREP CALL!

I have never forgotten Cliff. These days, if a candidate tries to squirm out of my excessive prep, I tell them Cliff’s story. I tell them MY story – I’m a professional recruiter who interviews people ALL THE TIME, but being on the “other side” of the desk is different! And scary! And hard! Y’all know I’m a recruiter who does this every single day – when it was my turn to be the interviewee – I realized just how little I knew about my now employer’s expectations and how they were going to “grade” me. I’m so grateful I listened to my recruiter and soaked up the many prep documents she sent me ahead of time. I also work exclusively with managers, so I get to remind them how THEY are vetting candidates. When you’re interviewing someone for your team, don’t you want them to have taken advantage of EVERY opportunity to be ready? The answer is a resounding YES.

So for candidates who still think I’m full of shit, here’s what I want you to consider before your next interview:

  • You’re probably interviewing once every few years at best. You are not a “professional” interviewer. You’re a professional something else and probably amazing at it. Please – let us help you with this part.
  • Interviewing is a TEST. I tell my engineering leaders all the time – “you’re probably REALLY GOOD at math. You do math every day. Math is your thing, you can do math in your sleep. Now you have to prove it. Remember the SATs? Did you study for those? SAME CONCEPT.”
  • With some exceptions, your recruiter wants this as badly (if not more so) than you do. We are literally in the business of delivering offers. We can’t do that if you don’t pass the interview. Trust us, we don’t want to mess this up. We have NOTHING to gain by giving you bad advice or steering you wrong.
  • You CAN ignore us. Maybe the prep doesn’t make sense, or you have an inside track (friends at the company, whatever) that completely runs contrary to what your recruiter is telling you. That’s OK! You can’t ignore what you don’t have in hand. Give us a chance. Take what works. Unless the recruiter is a total idiot, they probably have at least one or two helpful nuggets. It’s worth your time to take the call.
I am EXCEPTIONALLY lucky that I work with some of the smartest people on the planet. My company has a very high bar, and we offer lots of advice on how to navigate our challenging hiring process. I love when my candidates not only embrace my help, but ask lots of really great questions and take the time (weeks!) to really study up and make sure they’re putting their absolute best self in front of the interviewers. If you’re going to take the time to meet with interviewers, do yourself a favor and take any and all opportunity to knock it out of the park!

Actually, You DON’T Want To Hire “The Best”

Of all the lies recruiters tell themselves this might be one of my faves. We only hire “the best”. We only engage with “the best” talent on behalf of our clients. We won’t consider less than “the best” for our open roles. In fact, someone looking to hire a recruiter recently told me “decent is a bad word to me”, as he only hires “the best”.

As I’m thinking about this post, I’m wracking my brain trying to remember a time a hiring manager said those words to me. “ONLY BRING ME THE BEST! NOTHING ELSE WILL DO!” I gotta tell you guys, I’m drawing a blank here. This is not to say leaders get it right all the time – but generally they know to caveat their requests with some specifics. In all my years of tech recruiting, we are usually looking for someone who –

  • writes clean code
  • has been part of or possibly led a team
  • solved large scale problems
  • has a relatively provable track record of success

Can I with any confidence say I’m going to find “the best” developer and convince them to take this role? Or “the best” manager to lead that team? What the hell does it even mean? Is it all just meaningless buzzwords we use to feel superior? If I let myself fall too far down the rabbit hole I have to wonder just who is holding the measuring stick for all this best-i-ness!! HOW CAN I KNOW???

Fun Fact – I can’t. And neither can you. There are certain things we can and should vet as part of the recruiting process. Can the person accomplish this thing? Check. Are they interested in doing said thing for my client? Check. Will they actually leave the current place they’re doing the thing and come do the thing here for the amount of money I can pay them? CHECK CHECK CHECK.

Ladies and Gentlemen, you might have yourself a hire! Now congratulate yourself on being a master of the recruiting universe and stop wondering if someone “better” is out there. Because they are. You will drive yourself absolutely bat shit crazy if you focus on only “the best” however you choose to define it.  I guarantee someone else involved in the process will have a whole ‘nother way to measure “best”.

How about we look at this a little differently, hmm? Start asking yourselves these questions –

  • is my prospect QUALIFIED (they can do the thing)
  • are they INTERESTED (willing to talk about doing the thing here)
  • can I AFFORD them (I can pay what it will cost for them to do the thing)
This is obviously the BARE MINIMUM of what we should be thinking about / discussing – but how differently does our recruiting approach look when we stop caring about subjective, silly qualifiers like “best” and focus on things we can actually measure? A simple change in mindset is so freeing. All of a sudden I can start focusing on what MATTERS and forget about pipeline that won’t fit my criteria, no matter how great. This is often a discussion when it comes to remote work – you can’t really say you want “the best” when you’re not willing to let people work from home. Or bring their cats to work. Or wear yoga pants. Someone, somewhere, is doing an AMAZING job at the thing, and you won’t hire them because you have this or that rule. You can have those rules. Within reason and the law, you can have just about any old rule you want. So throw out “the best” and focus on what works for the team AND the candidate. In other words, “the best for this specific role, at this specific time, under these specific circumstances”.
You can have a high bar. You can expect BIG THINGS from people (even more so if you give them something juicy in return – be it money, culture, growth, whatever). Just keep it real. Your clients and candidates will love you for it.
Sincerely, 
Not the best – but definitely sometimes really great 🙂

Text Recruiting Done Okay-ish

My husband HATES texting. Really, any form of electronic communication is beyond him. Or beneath him. Thank goodness we’ve been friends since high school (read: pre-internet) or Lord knows we’d never have gotten together.

Recruiting, on the other hand, LOVES this shit. We can’t get enough of emails, inmails (INMAULS), tweets and Facebook messages. There’s a lot of noise being made about texting candidates as well. For, against, you name it.

Just today, in fact, I was treated to a text recruiting message of my very own!

There you have it, kids. The entire exchange took 2 minutes. Perfectly pleasant conversation, we QUICKLY ruled me out (y’all know my list of demands for contract work) and it highlighted an email I would have otherwise missed.
If I’m being really honest, I wouldn’t have replied to the email. It was a copy/paste of the job description with no real hook. Plus, that whole contract thing… but at least he was up front about it.
I’ve never used TextUs. I hadn’t even heard of it until today. Is it really a game changer? Maybe. Was this one of the more reasonable and pleasant recruiting conversations I’ve had in a while? Yup. 
I’m not sure that says a lot… no knock at all on the agency recruiter who sent this – like I said totally pleasant and I’d be open to hearing from him again if he had something relevant / up my alley. Of course I can’t claim he did any real research on me… but keeping it short and sweet is ok in my book. Maybe it’s the novelty of it. If I start getting 10-15 random texts a day I suppose I’d bitch about that like I do shitty inmails.
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